appearances

a character in a tv series once said, "we are ignorant of the things we don't see." how true! how true! how can we can rightfully judge a person or understand a situation when we don't know all the factors involved. instead of being a know-it-all, we, especially me, should stop for a while and try to look for the relevant information. even though, your comments may have been said in jest, it could still be hurtful.